well, let me help you with that. you might have watched the avengers and thought, “hey this seems like a cool and dandy ship. let me get on this.” you might follow someone who ships them and you want to understand what it’s all about. whatever made attracted to the ship doesn’t matter, but here are some sites and resources you can use to further your shipping.
The New Captain America/Iron Man Slashy Moments List
exactly what it sounds like. canon comic events that display “slashy” moments between our favorite super husbands.
Tales of Suspense featuring Captain America and Iron Man
a site that has Avengers fanfic that focuses on Steve and Tony, also includes: art, icons, and other steve/tony things.
Cap-Ironman comm
the livejournal community that is all steve/tony. fanfiction, fanvids, icons, fan art, all the works for your shipping needs.
Avengers Kinkmeme
the focus isn’t on steve/tony but you’ll find some good steve/tony fics in the mix.
tonysteve-scans
a blog dedicated to comic scans of our two favorite guys.
Now for those of you courageous enough to consider reading the comics. I can also help you there.
Iron Man
iron man part 1: tales of suspense 39-99, iron man and sub-mariner, and iron man 1-100
iron man part 2: iron man 101-200, iron man annuals, and iron man 86-87
iron man part 3: iron man 201-332
iron man part 4: iron man v2, v3, v4 1-12
Captain America
captain america part 1: tales of suspense 59-99, captain america 100-200, and captain america annuals
captain america part 2: captain america 201-300
captain america part 3: captain america 301-400
captain america part 4: captain america v1 401-454, captain america v2, v3, v4 and captain america v5 1-25
Avengers
marvel avengers 1: Avengers v1 001-100 and Avengers Annuals
marvel avengers 2: Avengers v1 101-200
marvel avengers 3: Avengers v1 201-300
marvel avengers 4: Avengers v1 301-402
marvel avengers 5: Avengers v2 , Avengers v3, Avengers 500-503 (Disassembled), and New Avengers 1-12
Civil War (because this is what sold me on steve/tony)
complete civil war
Lastly (a disgusting act of shameless self promotion), a steve/tony rec list with, what I believe to be, some of the best works of fanfiction written in the fandom.
I hope this helps.